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https://autside.substack.com/p/the-frequency-of-belonging-on-autistic
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I’m (mostly?) autistic, and this really resonated with me.
I’m wondering if someone wrote something similar, but from the perspective of those of our ND tribe who are more strongly from the #ADHD
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type?
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https://bsky.app/profile/jaimehoerricks.bsky.social
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I truly loathe the “Deficit & Disorder” acronyms for us. I would love having descriptions of our ways of being without the pathologic framing!
A friend of mine just told me: While standard brain walks into the room and picks up 10 things, we (#ADHD) tend to notice 50 or 100 of things.
So while for them it looks like we're not attentive for not noticing the spilled coffee on the table, our reality is that they seem to be functioning weird by not noticing the t-shirt that was intentionally left to be re-used, which means I really need to buy detergent, so I better collect the garbage that is under the sink, which needs ...
Suddenly I'm wondering how many cases of cognitive or memory decline, or other psychological problems that were attributed to old age were in fact due to some form of neurodivergent (or possibly other) burnout, but weren't seen as such due to this not being well understood?
Eid Mubarak, everyone!
Today’s Eid al-Adha. In Islam, its significance, in practice, carries the language of sacrifice, provision, obligation, and redistribution. The sacrifice here does not mean abandoning ourselves. One way to interpret it is to materially align ourselves with what Islam teaches us: that God is Al-Wahhab, The Supreme Bestower; Ar-Razzaq, The Provider; and Al-Fattah, The Opener of provision doors. Our dignity is not earned through productivity, respectability, or survival performance. It is inherent because Allah created us with worth before capitalism ever demanded utility from us
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When life itself is provision, then everything we hold in this dunya (world) must be understood with humility. Wealth is not proof of superior worth, harder work, or greater deservingness. It exists because Allah allows it to exist under divine decree. To hoard that provision while others are forced to compete for food, shelter, medicine, and safety is not success. It is moral corruption and spiritual bankruptcy.
This means nobody should be in a constant battle between solidarity and survival, or in a competition for basic necessities to earn a proper and dignified living. Nobody should go to sleep hungry, without a roof, or in pain from lack of medication, because nobody should hoard God’s provision.
With that being said, below are the requests from people asking for help with survival needs, rent, food, medicine, utilities, and everything else that enables us to live with dignity, all the things capitalism makes us compete with each other for while slowly eroding our humanity in the process.
Please read through the requests, support directly where possible, and share the requests that still need movement. The rest of the requests can be found under last week’s mutual aid checkpoint.
https://mastodon.social/@broodcoffee/116454754564011275
https://mastodon.social/@Toadlyturtle/116625917265753298
https://blahaj.zone/notes/amn1yu4gg5mh0599
https://blackqueer.life/@moo/116624589497182017
https://mastodon.social/@ellespeaks/116625506092353743
https://mastodon.social/@ellespeaks/116625456332856822
https://me.dm/@kshernandez/116618871069837116
https://cyberpunk.lol/@MaskedRyder/116619913296676282
https://mas.to/@Bislick/116641442538377453
https://mastodon.social/@dobrochna/116643130124280241
@broodcoffee @Toadlyturtle @technocrow @moo @ellespeaks @MaskedRyder @kshernandez @Bislick @dobrochna

Layan’s mother needs post-operative care after a miscarriage and D&C, with no other income. Donate via Chuffed and boost her request.
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Help move Haya’s stalled campaign after a month without support; her family needs food and she needs to continue her studies. Donate via Chuffed.
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The Gaza Verified team tracked 184 Palestinian campaigns that raised less than $200 in the past seven days. Please look through the thread and contribute within your capacity..
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Every week, I collect mutual aid requests that show up under my Friday mutual aid checkpoint on the fediverse. This is a small attempt on my part, and a continuation of my weekly checkpoint on my previous main platform, which should not be named. This is just another node in the vast digital mutual aid community, to make solidarity as borderless as possible and mutual aid requests easier to follow, share, and return to.
I know I don’t have to do this, but please allow me to apologise for being late to publish this week’s checkpoint roundup article and newsletter. We’re in the second week of the mutual aid amplification project on the fediverse, yet I’m already late publishing the weekly article. I don’t have any excuse other than I really forgot to set this up before focusing on my ibadah, on top of stabilising the ActivityPub relay for the past week, while also catching up with my anime rewatch. Unforgivable.
If last week’s roundup seemed rushed, that’s because it was. It genuinely was. Please bear with me while I’m slowly getting used to the rhythm of work and quality that I set up for myself within my own project framework. Yes, I can hear my AuDHD brain battling against emotional regulation and integrity while typing that.
Eventually, I will form a team to sustain this project together with me, and this whole project will finally be where it belongs: https://mutualaidspace.org (formerly https://mutualaid.wrzky.com). My personal website here will return to functioning as my digital identity, portfolio, and virtual homebase on Bisan’s internet.
Thank you for reading this far. Feel free to drop me an email with your thoughts or advice, if any. And don’t forget to share this article where my presence is unwanted and where mutual aid requests get labeled as e-begging.
See you around.
@mutualaid @mutualaid @disability @autistics @actuallyadhd @wrzky @MutualAidBot
@nillerus @khurry @theleftistlawyer @Kristenzeta @[email protected] @[email protected] @frugalcoffee @frugalcoffee @sassycassyshenanigans @aral @fabio
#mutualaid #mutualaidrequest #mutualaidspace #disabilitymutualaid
#disability #advocacy #press #activism #politics #neurodivergence #anarchism #socialmedia #writer #disabilityjustice #Autism #ActuallyAutistic #ADHD #AuDHD
#womensrights #feminism #transmutualaid #poverty #healthcare #mentalhealth #books #Palestine #Gaza #genocide #anticapitalism #antiimperialism #communism #Islam #EidMubarak
Hey all my neurodivergent peeps! This question came up in a Discord server i am in and i am wondering if the results here will be the same.
If you are any sort of neurodivergent, do you prefer programs and apps in dark mode or light mode?
#autism #adhd #neurodivergent #bipolar #dissociation
| Dark mode: | 132 |
| Light mode: | 39 |
| No preference: | 14 |
🧠 "...studies have found that people with ADHD tend to be highly creative thinkers, who may find new ways of approaching a problem that others hadn't thought of.
"The difficulty with compartmentalization can also lead to more fluidity, and connection between ideas, and creativity and risk taking,"
Hey #ADHD #AuDHD #Autistic folks, so, while I'm not officially diagnosed with a specific neurodiversity yet, my therapist agrees there is definitely something there, probably in that area. I have been trying to chat with some older folks in my family about it and I sorta lack good resources or quizzes/quick assessment resources that could potentially help with breaching the subject with them, or helping in their own curiosity.
Are there any that folks recommend for good but easy reads?
Not being able to explain why I'm upset and then being upset about not being able to explain it.
That loop has been running for as long as I can remember.
#makeShitMonday, crochet edition, in which I have a socially acceptable fidget toy...
@mbroome and I are taking a weeklong vertical cave rescue class, and it has been a looooong time since I tried to cram this much information into my head this fast. Fortunately one of the course leaders is a teacher as her day job and understands ADHD, so she's totally okay with me crocheting my way through the classroom instruction.
We're three days in, and I've already finished the hat for my BIL and gotten a good start on the [crochet lace shrug](https://www.ilikecrochet.com/magazine/crochet-shawl-patterns/jade-vines-crochet-shrug/) I'm making with the nice cashmere yarn I got on super sale!
This shrug pattern is *perfect* for classroom #ADHD management - simple stitch, no finicky counting, just cluster into the chain-2 space over and over until I run out of yarn... 🥰 It's so much easier to concentrate on the lecture material when my hands are occupied! I even managed a halfway-decent Russian splice, from memory, when I ran into a break in the yarn.
Truquets que vaig trobant per no ser un putu desastre.
Perquè em consti que coi és el què estic fent, què em queda per fer i què he fet.
Així estem.
Per si serveix a algú.
Coses de #personesaltamentdisperses i #pensamentarborescent , unes característiques plenes d'avantatges però patològiques quan se'ns obliga a viure en un sistema per a una #neuronormativitat que és un invent.
#tdah #adhd
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"... Here we critically review evidence collected during the past 40-plus years supporting the role of dopamine dysfunction in attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD).
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Examining the evidence in this way leads us to conclude that there is evidence for the involvement of dopamine but limited evidence for a hypo-dopaminergic state per se as a key component of ADHD. ..."
The dopamine hypothesis for ADHD: An evaluation of evidence accumulated from human studies and animal models
No one is going to give me a fucking serious answer because I'm a weak minded piece of shit according to the majority of the internet…
But do any other autistic people have this relationship with spice where it's like… I'm not a super champ but I do REALLY REALLY enjoy certain foods like tonight I got a street truck paneer dosa and I'm SO hungry and my mouth thinks it wants more?? But also a few bites is enough and I don't feel capable of eating more even though I'm HUNGRY and it TASTES REALLY GOOD? But I just… can't… eat… more…
Like my "flavor" intake is maxed out EVEN THOUGH IT'S DELICIOUS I just can't tolerate a lot AND EVEN THOUGH I'm still ravenous…
I need a fellow ADHDer to put into words for Miguel why excessive non-sense questioning (but do you want a tall cup, medium, porcelain, glass...with your coffee) drives us insane. Could you guys help?
@autistics
Announcement: #Voxelibre multiplayer casual game today (Sat) for 4 hours in the late afternoon to evening (North America). That's in about 3.5 hours from now.
Voxelibre is a free and #OpenSource #Minecraft clone. More details here: https://docs.autis.toque.im/
Damage has been turned off. People with #Autism, #ADHD or #AuDHD are invited.
Hot take: I really dislike the term AuDHD because it fucks up the ADHD abbreviation. My brain reads AuDHD as Autistic Deficit Hyperactive Disorder and I hate that.
(I dislike the term ADHD as well, but that is a different rant)
My friend Jonathan Hiebert over on Facebook. #whimsy #authenticity
https://www.facebook.com/jonathan.hiebert.1
#giftedandtalented #actuallyautistic #autism #autistic #neurodivergent #adhd #AuDHD
Today's cross-stitch.
An Elvanse 70 mg pill (or Trans Pill, as I like to call it). It will be a present for one of my partners
#embroidery #CrossStitch #Elvanse #adhd
I offer 20% off at my Etsy shop for all folks who find me through Mastodon. Code: MASTO20
https://brittbuilds3d.etsy.com
When you use the code, I'll also add a small extra fidget to your order as a thank you for your support. 
You don't have to disclose who you are if you don't want to!
When I see the code on the order, I'll know how you found me.
Here are a few examples of the custom fidget toys I craft for my store:
#ADHD #Autistic #AUDHD #SmallBusiness #Etsy #BrittBuilds3D #3DPrinting #Queer #Disabled
My business is Canadian
, neurodiversity-friendly
, and owned by a queer, disabled human. 
SO IT'S #Autism Awareness Month?
since am one of those #ActuallyAutistic people Dx at the tender age of 50 (yes, 50. and yes am older now, shut up), am not acquainted with the american rituals of national days or awareness months involving autism.
welp, let me do this as a gentle reminder:
1. BLACK
2. INDIGENOUS
3. PUERTO RICAN
4. CARIBBEAN
5. LATINOAMERICANES
6. WOMEN
can be #autistic too.
and in my case: #dyslexic with a sprinkling of good ol' extra spicy #ADHD.
but ironically, 🧵
Just curious. For the purposes of the poll, count coffee / mate and other caffeine (and any illicit stimulant substances) as self-medication.
(In high school and college I remember saying "coffee makes me sleepy" and IN RETROSPECT, OMG.)
| Diagnosed ADHD & stimulant meds help me sleep: | 27 |
| Diagnosed ADHD & stimulant meds keep me awake: | 22 |
| Unofficial ADHD & stimulant meds help me sleep: | 19 |
| Unofficial ADHD & stimulant meds keep me awake: | 25 |
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Hey hey fellow ADHD folks and anyone else who regularly needs post-its or other written reminders! YouTube just put this in front of me. It's a band you can write on with a ball point pen, wipe off using friction (water won't remove it), and it snaps to your wrist.
It was originally designed for nurses in Japan who write notes on their wrists. But I can imagine about a thousand ways that a person who struggles with executive function could use something like this!
The website for the company is wemo.earth, and you can buy the bands on Amazon if you need that convenience, or also at japantrendshop.com as an Amazon alternative (they ship worldwide). They're about $18 USD.
Did you know that neurotypical folks just can not think about anything for a period of time? Yeah, me neither.
#Autism and #ADHD lead to less synaptic pruning which results in a higher density of synaptic connections. This leads to brain hyperconnectivity, which is the cause of sensory overload and reduced filtering of irrelevant stimuli. It is as well a reason for difficulties with executive functions.
I wish I sometimes just could NOT think.